If you’ve been hurt in a relationship really badly,
you may want to build some walls around you so that it will never happen again.
You will then block 99% of the chance for broken trust, deception, lies, or anything else awful from ever happening to you.
But, if those walls are up, you will also block out 99% of the chance for trust, openness, truth, and love from ever happening to you.
Realize instead, that the pain was caused by THAT person, not every person. By keeping the walls up, you’re choosing to punish yourself and every person who tries to love you.
Don’t punish the innocent.
Improve your odds for love. Break down the walls.